However, people in the best love relationship know it takes effort to make the relationship does not fall apart let alone disband. Like some trivial habits are often done and can quickly damage your relationship.
- Bland conversation and focused conversation
Maybe your partner does not really care about the same question. But when it keeps repeating it will feel very boring.
Try to ask something unusual like "Is there something funny about you ..." or "Is there any difficulty when ..." The more creative the question will make the couple wait for the new conversation because someone who is bored will tend to leave Things that make him bored.
- Failed to express your needs
In a happy love affair, surely there will be a session expressing desire. This desire can take the form of treatment and can also be a special request.
Just like when you want to be asked for opinions about your appearance or when you want to ask your partner to embrace without being asked. Actually the couple can read your movements. They will hate themselves when they fail to fulfill the spouse's wishes and you become annoyed.
- Failed to plan a serious discussion
A very sensitive conversation will lead you to conflicts, misunderstandings, and worse still farewell. Instead, try writing down something you'll talk about first.
It will help you stay calm even in the face of difficult conversations and will improve the quality of communication with your partner. Writing what you want to talk about can help you stay focused on the problem, rather than it will make you upset, angry, or jealous of others.
- Trying hard to solve conflicts before going to sleep
There is a saying "Do not let the sun set in an argument." This advice is good because many arguments between couples are more manageable after both have a good night's sleep.
So, do not yell at the couple after a day of work or noisy relatively trivial problems. Better you both go to bed and solve the problem in the morning.
- Talk bad about your partner behind him
It is always a temptation to talk to your friends whenever a couple makes mistakes. Because unconsciously you have vilified yourself by talking about the lack of a partner to others.
If your partner finds out, you can imagine how painful it feels. The person he loves vilify his partner just because of the personal problems you face together.